Why People Are Stuck in The Cycle of Either Complying or Rebelling

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Why People Are Stuck in The Cycle of Either Complying or Rebelling Most people are stuck in a cycle of either complying or rebelling. I'll explain to you why is that and how people can fix that.

In our current phase of personal development, people are learning how to maintain connection to each other in relationship and maintain a sense of themselves (autonomy) at the exact same time. We are currently struggling with two polarized forms of pain, enmeshment (loss of self) and isolation (loss of closeness with others). In this struggle, people tend to become very confused and fail to see what they are doing clearly. This is especially true when an individual who has experienced enmeshment trauma or isolation trauma begins to heal. Today, I’m going to explain a pattern that people struggling to heal from enmeshment trauma tend to slip into without seeing it.

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  1. Thsnks, It’s an interesting way to describe the creative process that happens between you and the world. 👁⭐ I appreciate you expressing your unique self.

  2. It’s important to wake up spiritually first and then all of this stuff becomes part of the variety rather than a good versus bad opposition… that will break the cycle.

  3. I still feel like I’m a rebel even though i’m 28..I was just discussing this today with my Therapist! Thank You so much Teal & Team! Your teachings have expedited my healing beyond measure….

  4. I read the article a few days ago. And all I can say is this came in at the perfect moment for me! Thank you Teal. I’m healing day by day. 💕

  5. I especially like how this illustrates self image and the reflecting of information through relationships. It also builds a strong case for needing to shift one’s identity from their limited self to spirit, or go from the ‘ugly duckling’ to the Teal “Swan”. It’s really sweet to meet a spirit and a self combined! 🙏 thank you for being who you are and for the stories of what you’ve been through. 👁⭐

  6. OMG this came at a perfect time.
    For me, rebellion still feels better than this complete powerlessness around complying and pleasing. I thought this was one step on the way, just like going from dependence over independence to interdependence. But I see this is a complete other, unhealthy dynamic.

  7. I’m wishing everyone who clicked on this channel nothing but LONG LIFE & PROSPERITY💰🌎

    • @Jordan Smith Another famous Spock quote, “If we start buzzing about down there, we’re liable to find their mental power is so great they could reach out and swat this ship as though it were a fly.” Almost sounds like he is talking about us when we are not polarized or confused and (we think we can) see what we are doing clearly.

  8. Oh god. If there’s anything I understand it’s this one. I live in Vermont and this pattern is so. So. SO. Strong here

  9. The frequency of the feeling you are feeling is an energy that is tuning into that feeling to get more of that feeling. Do you want it to be slavery compliance or rebellion when it could be so much more. Life is more than opposites. You must see the other options… Now for something completely different. Faith comes from hearing, that is being made aware of other possibilities that you might have hope to have instead of the ONLY things you know. An open mind seeks understanding and a closed mind judges things beyond its comprehension by fear of the unknown. The truth is in many perspectives and there are 3 sides to every story. Each point of view and the real absolute truths that are not personal. But that is the minimum points of view… and we must see, its not black or white, its a little grey. Something in between. And because it is not extreme and not the same as others, should be okay too. Be not an angry bastard, its a frequency. Learn its all programming and you can learn how to and choose to, change those programs. Where instead of being a chain reaction, you become a higher intelligence directing cause and effect.

    But hey, Im just saying… we change the world or we keep it the way it is. We DO make a difference or an indifference. The NOW moment FOCUS is powerful if you have a plan for cause and effect, like a computer program is planned and set forth to be many things coming together in a sequence and timing to cause something to become active in real time. Likewise we program our minds, and these become autopilot blueprints. And we FEEL as feedback what we are causing by our current frequency. And if we focus upon it, we make more of it by feeding it more energy and tuning into it and causing resonance flow at a metaphysical universal interaction to the omnipresent energy that is all things.

    If we don’t take control of our programming and learn how to make it better and change it, we are mere chain reactions of those who do shape this reality. So choose your reality or it will be chose for you. Feeling lucky punk? Well you have to grow and get some years of experience and seek understanding and know how before you program your mind! Its like brain surgery to some extent, you would not attempt it without some training! Mind Programs. When you understand these, you will see, everything is a programmed chain reaction perception that can be changed or influenced in many ways. Much is an illusion of perceptions of reality or emotions or personal biases. We in effect shape our reality as self fulfilling prophecy making subconscious decisions that make our expectations come true. We see what we are filtered to see and ignore everything else. Tuning in, focus, tunnel vision, resonance flow. Keys to getting things done with the flow of the natural energy and tapping into even more…

  10. Despite the economic crisis, this is still a good time to invest in Gold and crypto

    • @Arina Vogelbacher it’s a team of scammers working in tandem trying to lure victims in with success stories. Notice all of their comments are within minutes of one another.

    • Gold or silver, not some imaginary crypto currency that could disappear in an instant if the lights go out.

    • @Perplexing Perceptions 3:33PM crypto currencies are the future. It makes hell lot of sense to invest in them. It’s like with the invention of the car. It is already the future

  11. I was the enmeshed, gaslit son of a mom tending towards certain personality traits, with low self worth and sense of self…even though on paper she is a genius. I was lived through vicariously. It was ok up until 16, then slowly she found more extreme dramas to not let me detach from her emotionally and financially. I started living on my own when I was 27. 31 now. It’s been a tough road to learn boundaries and gain my own perspective, while she seems failing to adapt, even while I set her up for success on her own the best I could. I lost count how many times I’ve been disowned then begged for help in these last 4 years. Ego death a bish. I’m still learning to fall in love with life again, have a stable perspective of my own, and connect with others. But I’m closer all the time. Seems maybe my higher self knew what it was getting into anyways 😉 Love her still from afar. Getting closer with other fam too. It’s all good 😊 Thank you Teal 🙏🥰✌❤🧡💛💪

    • Can relate. Even though financial was not an aspect for me mentally & emotional was. Came to realize how that dynamic played out in other relationships in my life.

    • @Sheila Gibson If you have financial resources, you have time, place and energy to do something with your other problems (emotional, psychic etc.).
      If you have no financial resources, you can do nothing. That’s the difference.

    • @Jan Balabán What I meant was my mother wasn’t in a position to help me in anything financial. So there wasn’t any financial dependence. I often times had to work 3 jobs just to keep a roof over my head. Many of my choices in life were dictated by mental constructs I was conditioned to accept.
      And if your equating your financial situation to whether or not you can break this conditioning your not serious about your own sovereignty.
      That’s an outrageous Excuse!!!

  12. Yes Teal exactly , be neither judgemental of rebellious nor compliant , just be powerful and free 🤩

  13. This makes me realize–I’ve been rebelling against myself. Living in a state of reaction to myself. One aspect trying to control the other at every opportunity, the other aspect rebelling against control…hiding from it. This dynamic ended between my caregivers and I a long time ago, but I see how I’ve been continuing it within myself.

  14. Most men I know have been enmeshed by their mothers. So they end up either completely rebelling or being loyal to her every need.

  15. I efin’ hate it when she’s right and it feels like she’s holding a mirror right up to my nose. Love your work Teal. There is no doubt your are smart and beautiful. But that worth nothing next to your compassion. I feel you.

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