Why It Takes Two to Make a Relationship Work and Only One to Ruin It

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Why It Takes Two to Make a Relationship Work and Only One to Ruin It. It only takes one person to ruin a relationship but it takes two to make a #relationship work. In this video I'm going to explain to you what I mean by that.

It’s time to dismantle a revered societal belief, because this societal belief prevents people from seeing the truth of relationships as they really are. The belief it’s time to dismantle is: It takes two to ruin a relationship.

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  1. Total synchronicity!
    This are my thoughts exactly about relationships 🙂
    Thanks Teal 🙂

  2. The take away, if you’ve committed and invested but they aren’t it’s ok but the stinger is, when to let go especially when you’re in love.

  3. This is great, thank you teal💜
    I seriously uncomplicated my life when I decided to become celibate about three years ago. Now instead of pouring myself into another person distracting myself from my self, I take that energy and focus on getting to know my self & Source better & my life has never been more peaceful and full of divine knowing.
    After I stepped away from sex/relationships, I started to realize mating up is a program because it’s hard to know yourself when you’re busy pouring yourself into another person and worried about what they want and what they feel and what they think, I feel like it’s all just a distraction from getting to know yourself.
    Not many agree with this and that’s okay but my life and reality significantly changed when I chose to redirect the energy that I used to pour into another person.
    It’s a lot of time and energy we put into other people that could be redirected to the focus of the soul/returning back to oneness.
    I focus on my self/soul instead of distracting myself with another person.
    I think it’s just a program to mate up because they (the god written about on money) want us having children they want us firmly firmly entrenched in the things of this world and so profoundly busy that we don’t take a moment to know our soul…..that’s my perspective and I feel very strongly that this world is full of examples of “just because you can does not mean that you should” and the mating up/reproduction program is one of those things.
    Sending so much love, thanks teal💜

    • I agree with a lot of that. I personally haven’t written intimate relationships off forever, but at the same time, have recognized that having one is not a “better” way of doing life, just a different one. You should get married, you should have children…these are things people say and feel compelled to do without always questioning if that’s really true for them. But when I look at how wrong people are about so many other things in general, I know there simply isn’t one “right” version/way of doing life. No one alive on the planet right now is an expert– we’re all here for the first time, basically winging it. So why would I choose someone else’s truth over my own?

    • Getting into a relationship kickstarted my journey towards self discovery and self love. Suddenly I had someone who met my needs for intimacy, touch and connection. Suddenly I had someone’s support overcoming A LOT of blockages, encouraging me to come out of my shell and step into my true authentic self. Suddenly I had someone who would hold my hand in the darkest times.
      I think it depends on the invidual, what kind of traumas and needs we have. For someone who has avoidant attachment being single and experiencing autonomy is key, while if you’re anxious attachment like me healing will always happen in a safe, healthy relationship.
      Not saying that a romantic relationship doesn’t take up a lot of time and energy. It’s not all sunshine, your partner will be a giant mirror in your face, and that’s super tough but also great for shadow work / awareness.

    • @Nephthyz  For me, the avoidants / anxious types’ needs assessments still posits everything in the framework of how you “should” approach relationships, that it’s an either/or, with the starting point being that having a relationship is more desirable: if you’re avoidant, it will impede you; the implication is always that the avoidants are loner-y, damaged, odd types who will kind of lose out in the life relationships department because they just can’t connect properly the way “secure” people can, and if you’re anxious, it will help you; you’re fearful and needy and clingy, but you’re loveable, and all you need is a strong, “secure”person who has the right answers to help you get better. But I’m looking at things zoomed out from there, where behavior/effects of relationships aren’t the issue. It’s sort of like when people argue over the interpretation of something in the bible, or over which religion is “correct.” Either way assumes that the person is already operating under the idea that one of them is going to be true or that there even is a god, when there is a realm of thinking where things like that are just blips on a bigger, zoomed-out radar.

    • A very thoughtful and valid perspective…. I would add that one can also Know and Integrate the two sides (DF & DM) of the Self and then, there always is an etheric/energetic connection to others while in a solitary physical situation…. As we are ascending, telepathic communications start and a proper match to one’s consciousness will appear…. BTW, I too have a very good ancestral connection to the Indigenous Ones even though I presently have a Scandinavian geneology…. I have a playlist with some videos on my own Soul Journey through the Gnostic Christian Tradition of Christian Mysticism that you may find Interesting…. Love and Blessings

  4. Thank you Teal. Can you make a video on creativity. You’ve talked about it here and there but I think one video would be helpful. And what happens to creative people that suppress their inner artists

  5. I love how you break down complicated topics into simple words so everyone can understand these patterns. Thank you so much, Teal.

  6. Yes ofcourse , when u know you are the best dancer you are not at all afraid dancing anywhere and with anyone and the same goes with relationship 🙏.

  7. True I always laugh when I hear the phrase “it takes two to tango” in relation to this topic. Actually not at all 😊 it takes 2 people both committed and invested for a relationship to actually exist, otherwise it’s unrequited love. Remember beloveds don’t keep choosing someone who doesn’t choose you 🌸✨

  8. thanks. So many times I’ve found myself on that plate, stepped up and all, BUT: no pitcher!! done.⚾️💜

  9. 4:07 Teal just gave me a great title for my autobiography: “Dancing the Tango Alone.”

  10. Thank you very much for being such an inspiration for so many years.

    Could you please make a video about the resistance to taking physical action? Why does somebody that used to be active as a kid become passive as an adult or love to postpone taking action?

    • Could be that you are in a shutdown state due to trauma. Look up Somatic Experience, for example.

  11. I haven’t even bothered with relationships. I’m still too damaged of an individual to be a stable partner and even if I was stable I’d be too busy with my own things

  12. Yes, it takes two to make a relationship work. So clear and well-explained. The video helped me clear some inaccurate perceptions. Thank you, Teal, for the gift of truth.

  13. It all seems so obvious, and yet . . . reminders of what is obvious can sometimes be most welcome. In my experience, the relationship I have with myself – loving, trusting, caring – is the best guide I have for gauging the quality and vitality of my relationships

  14. Anyone who has worked hard to make a relationship work with a partner who sabotages it repeatedly no matter what you do or don’t do, already knows this, ask me how I know. I was shocked how few people get this though, so thank you

  15. OMG I enjoyed this video so much. Teal, your videos are so perfectly timed as I just went through a painful breakup. I was dancing the dance with a partner in resistance to the dance.Also thanks to your videos I managed to leave in staying true to my needs. As a dancer I love the analogy with dance and the beautiful pictures! Thank you so much for what you do, words are not enough!

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