What is The ONLY FROM YOU Pattern in Relationships? Teal Swan

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What is The Only From You Pattern in Relationships? The only from you pattern is very typical in relationships these days. In this video I want to explain to you what the only you pattern is about

In psychology, self-development and spiritual circles, we often use the word resourcing. To resource means to identify and use a thing as a resource for something that is wanted; it is something that can be drawn on when it is needed or wanted. For example, a specific skill can be resourced to help you deal with a problem. Or a specific positive experience can be resourced to help you intentionally change the way that you feel. Or a specific mineral can be resourced in order to help create healing or change to some element of your life. Or a specific part of yourself can be resourced in order to deal with a situation in the most effective way possible. Or a specific person in your life can be resourced so as to fulfill any one of your needs. However, for various reasons, many people have trouble resourcing and many of those people who have trouble resourcing are stuck in a self-deprivation pattern that I like to call the “only from you pattern”.

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Video References:

Using People (Ask Teal episode about interdependence: 9:11

Overlay (What Prevents You From Having a Real Relationship): 13:23

Incompatibility: A Harsh Reality in Relationships: 14:25

0:00 What's "resourcing"?
1:09 Developing AUTONOMY in childhood
4:02 "Only you" trauma examples
7:43 You're Using People every day
10:03 Tip #1 Assign correct roles to people
11:39 Tip #2 Get in reality about CAN and CAN'T
13:39 Tip #3 Collect people
13:58 Tip #4 What can/can't you offer?
14:31 Why you should SHIFT this pattern

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  1. “Self-confidence can be learned, practiced, and mastered–just like any other skill. Once you master it, everything in your life will change for the better.” -Barrie Davenport

  2. Completely unrelated but I really like Teal’s outfit today! These colors look gorgeous on her!

  3. Those who know Source don’t mind being a “re-Source”.
    👁⭐ Thank you Teal, I was enlightened by this concept and the practices presented.

    • @Bernard Bujard I’m glad we have open minded conversation around this Bernard. 🙂 And now I’m thinking about how people can embody different roles, activities, interests, skills, etc… and how their interaction with these things brings a personal contribution to our collective history. One of the videos on my channel is called Living Beyond Labels, Names and Roles. I would enjoy hearing some of your personal reflections on it. 😺

    • @David Kim(AlphaOmega 735) lol, ikr! We’re having so much pun now!😺👁⭐

    • @Daily Spiritual Card Readings Nice! I went to your channel and watched the recommended video. “We are self aware, not self centered.” I wish everyone practiced that.

    • @Bernard Bujard thanks for letting me know. And thanks for clueing in on the best words that are available there. What are some of the reasons why you think someone wouldn’t practice that?

  4. Like Eckhart Tolle said: “Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it”. In this case is with people. Instead of asking someone to give us all we need, try to discover what every individual can provide, look if that’s what you need, and then ask for that. Not forcing, just using what you actually have in front of you. Thankyou so much Teal Swan ♥

  5. This is so welcome Teal!
    This was totally my exclusif dependant- codépendance pattern till now leading to jealousy, bitterness, separation.

    It’s like you are talking to immature me with benevolence
    Now it’s obvious and thus switch opens the heart , I am stronger thus able to be generous myself.

    Thank you!

  6. Literally could not come out at a more perfect time. Lately I’ve been criticising & arguing with my boyfriend for not spending enough time/giving me enough attention and falling into a cycle of shame whenever we made up. This video is really puts things into perspective. Thank you <3

  7. You’re timing is excellent! Love it Teal! Thank you! ❤️ Another dynamic may be pushing unwanted resources onto others. The resource should be something that the other person is looking for and wants to receive

  8. This is exactly what I’ve been thinking about lately. I have no resources other than my husband and he has serious limitations. I’m not getting all of my needs met, he isn’t either. I know I need more people. The issue is that it is a whole thing to go find the people you need, make sure your partner understands because let’s face it, often they’re offended if you’re not “satisfied” with them. I’m exhausted even tho king about how much work it is to fix all that. Not to say I won’t try, it’s the path of expansion, there’s no other direction to go in. ❤️🙏

    • Then why do married people/people in relationships cut everyone out

  9. This sounds like a narcissist’s manual: “How and where to get my next supply.”

  10. The key she drops at the end along with end music makes u feel like a spaceship trooper that just zipped up to battle aliens 😊❤️

  11. Wow, this fixes everything for me! At least now I’m aware of this and now I can see options too. Wow, thank you Teal!

  12. encouraged me to see the aspects i didn’t even realize were within me

  13. So Proud of having all traumas Teal speaks about in Her videos. 💪💪💪

  14. I did not have this with my birthmother in fact not anyone when I was a child. It made it very challenging growing up still working on trusting people and myself. I also would not be the person I am today without the childhood I had. Letting go of the life I created to stay safe.

    Thank you, Teal. 💜

  15. I wish you would’ve posted this sooner before I canceled pretty much everyone in my life 😂 still very eyeopening and useful info thanks Teal💖

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