Be Consciously Transactional. Why Every Relationship is Transactional

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Be Consciously Transactional. Why Every Relationship is Transactional

Today, I’m going to take you way out on a limb by challenging one of the beliefs that current society holds most dear. I ask you to proceed with a very open mind. Because changing the perspective you hold about this, has the capacity to positively overhaul your life.

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  1. Dear person, who reads it. Yes, I mean exactly you! Maybe we don’t know each other. Still, I want to say, that I believe in you! You will certainly achieve your dreams and your happiness! Just don’t give up and be honest with yourself! Now you have at least one person who constantly believes in you, which means you are fated to realize your dreams! No doubts here ^)
    *Best wishes for you ❤️ from a small YouTube…..*

    P.S: In the past, this message ☝ saved me from a lonely and unhappy life! I believe that for you this message at least will make a day!😁

  2. I’m so thankful for this video today. I’m doing my best to focus on transactional relationships and improving how I communicate with others etc and needed a video today about how to be more consciously transactional 🥰

  3. After hearing the opening line I’m like: oooh this is going to be good! 😂😂😂

  4. This video was right on time especially for us who work in the mental health field. I’m having the hardest time teaching my clients about this concepts.

  5. Well yeah, you gotta give to get. You won’t stay with someone, if you aren’t getting your needs & wants met to a certain degree of satisfaction

  6. So nice to have this put into words. I have always felt the differences of these 2 things. People think I’m crazy

  7. Nice, I’m going to do this with all my relationships now. Very clear, and I don’t think I was consciously ever doing it.

  8. I’ve been honest with my Fiancé about this from day one, which he had a very hard time grasping. My relationship with him was based on compatibility and “transactional” (on the other hand he was head over heels in-lust)😊however, over time and because I was getting my needs met, I started to admire, highly respect and eventually started to fall inlove with him.

    Teal, you think I should send him this video? 😁

  9. I loved this, i am that type of person who takes everything personal. My mom told me to always be unconditional with the people that i love, and i grew up feeling ALWAYS that people used me. Im learning now, at 34, that everything in life needs to be balanced.

    • The fact that you felt you deserved more means you wanted something in return which means your love was waning from the lack of receiving from your partner. Why would you expect more from that person? Because you were going off the conditions of a transaction. There’s no unconditional love as far as I’m concerned.

    • This was my story too! I was taught so many religious beliefs that have very little to do with reality. Relearning has been a beautiful journey, and Teal Swan has accelerated my progress!

  10. Tip: sleep well & wake up energized, then you can move forward. If you’re tired, your problems become heavy.
    With enough energy you can do anything. Look at the space shuttle’s fuel tank.

  11. I love this series of teachings on Relationships. It helps me immensely in real life as well as parts work 💟

  12. Teal, you always talk about these topics at the exact time that I need to hear them.

  13. EXACTLY the topic which i’m struggling with and had discussions about with someone, thank you for this video Teal!

  14. Marital vows are 100% transactional. You’re agreeing to terms when you “vow” to comply.

  15. quite frankly its abusive to want someone to stay with you no matter if their needs are met or not (and often this is acted out in specifically not meeting that person’s needs and then you get them to stay anyway despite starving them and so the person thinks “i won! this person really loves me no matter what!”(no matter how little i give them) which very much ends up abusive

  16. Recently I broke up with my bf of a year because I feel like I was giving him my all, trying to consciously meet his needs but I realized my needs were not being met. And guess what, he was fully aware of it! After we broke up we got together to talk, and I didn’t even have to bring it up, he told me himself that he felt like he wasn’t giving enough, and never wanted to do the thing I wanted to do. I had a feeling this was the case, and the reason I wanted to break up because of incompatibility.

    We are now friends and I can still find love and respect for him, but I really learned about the importance energy transaction and how to meet my needs. Now I’m on my own again focusing on myself and I feel so much better. Don’t settle with people who do not value you and your needs! In my case I learned that I shouldn’t have to constantly remind people and drag them to even pay attention to my needs, even after actively communicating.

    • I want to make sure I’m clear on your comment:

      You did tell him over and over again what your needs were but he didn’t listen?

      But, you didn’t have to tell him that you broke up because he wasn’t giving enough.

      Do I understand that right?

  17. Just a suggestion: You should include more hashtags on the psychology side, as comparatively more people search for those.

  18. I’ve always thought that every relationship is based on using people. Healthy relationships occur when individuals feel the “use” is beneficial for both themselves and eachother.
    “Use” becomes negative when it’s imbalanced and/or deceitful.

    Also, the “success” of any relationship has no correlation to it’s duration!

    I’ve always had unconventional perspectives about relationships. It’s a pleasant feeling to hear another speak of similar viewpoints! (Especially another for whom i have so much respect and admiration!)

    Lastly, a huge lesson i’ve learned is that i can love from a distance! Love is eternal, but that doesn’t equate to remaining in imbalanced relationships, or holding onto any relationship which no longer serves!

  19. Guys, how do you think: would Teal allow me to translate her videos into Russian? I think the information she gives is just precious and as many as possible people should listen to her. It’s a pity Teal doesn’t reply to comments, I don’t know how to ask her.

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